21 Fun Questions To Rescue You On A Date
Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazing things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, “How to win friends and influence people” talks about the amazing power of asking questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to final base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you’re a woman and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving along. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone were to make a comedy show about part of your life, which part would they script and what would be found in the script?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?
11. What’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so did you get caught?
16. What’s the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?
20. Have you ever been caught touching yourself sexually? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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